SESSION FIVE:
Growth + Courage
Success is never owned;
RORY VADEN
it is only rented – and the rent is due every day.
THOUGHT PATTERN IDENTIFICATION + INTERRUPTION (T.P.I.I.):
Identity + Impact (who + why + how), Mental + Emotional Regulation, Gratitude + Acknowledgement, Self-Compassion + Forgiveness
GROWTH MINDSET:
The belief that you have the capacity to get better, and the interest to do so.
First Secret Ingredient: “Yet”
Second Secret Ingredient: Praise process, not intelligence/outcome.
PROCESS:
Did I apply – Effort?
Do I have a – Strategy?
Am I aware of / celebrating my – Progress?
GRIT:
If YOUR VISION is met with AN OBSTACLE, tears may be shed,
but soon enough another OPTION is identified and pursued.
In other words, in a gritty individual’s domain of passionate interest,
goals or actions deemed unfeasible are met with the response of an active search
for—or even invention of—viable alternatives.
Grit = Passion + Resiliency (Perseverance)
post-session reflection
- How did I feel immediately following Session 5?
- What are 1-3 things I learned since Session 5?
- What would I like to bring up/ work through in my next session?
post-session practice
- JOURNAL:
- Write down your VISION
- Answer the question: Have I been applying effort towards my vision? (y/n)
- Describe the strategy (or strategies) you have been using to work towards your vision.
- Describe the progress you have become aware of in the last many weeks.
- Because of your effort, strategy and progress what have you learned about yourself?
additional resources
- RECOMMENDED WATCHING: RESCUING YOURSELF (55 mins)